tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post3326015739554121658..comments2023-10-02T11:07:50.574-05:00Comments on Smiling Through the Rain: What does it feel like to sleep?Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03777400850337711004noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-74709537682651719002010-09-14T14:47:12.968-05:002010-09-14T14:47:12.968-05:00I think what you're going through is EXACTLY h...I think what you're going through is EXACTLY how I'm going to feel. I love sleep, and I get cranky and snippy when I don't get enough. Everything seems so much worse and so much more dramatic when I'm exhausted. I know hubby is very, very afraid of (me) how we'll survive this time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-29687568081066456012010-09-10T14:13:49.840-05:002010-09-10T14:13:49.840-05:00Don't feel guilty at all! First off as the oth...Don't feel guilty at all! First off as the others said its completey normal. But second, big huge kudos to you for posting about this and being honest about it so that other women can read it and feel less alone. As someone who is in a similar situation as you know, its hard to balance all the different feelings. Thank you for having the guts to say its normal to want something so bad and still find it hard. Thats what parenting is about! Thank you, thank you, thank you! And PS - you look great in the pics! <br />"JaspersMum"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-21647837161993635222010-09-10T13:19:35.915-05:002010-09-10T13:19:35.915-05:00Feel no guilt!!! You know that everything you'...Feel no guilt!!! You know that everything you're feeling is NORMAL. (easy for me to say, right? why can't we ever take our own advice??)<br />Sleep deprivation alone will make anyone crazy and then throw in the hormones and the fact that everything in your life has changed? No guilt. <br />Reading this makes me feel so much better about my major UPS and DOWNS. Thank you!!Traceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04371946159773753809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-27164284468121904152010-09-09T16:36:44.628-05:002010-09-09T16:36:44.628-05:00Don't feel guilty about this stuff. It sounds ...Don't feel guilty about this stuff. It sounds like you're doing a great job and hopefully your little girl will settle into more of a routine with longer naps soon. As for the crying, I get that already and my little guy hasn't even been born yet! Blame it on the hormones and sleep deprivation. You're doing great!finchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13517411348405651768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-36503376854579826042010-09-09T14:20:54.392-05:002010-09-09T14:20:54.392-05:00I'm sorry that you're having a rough time ...I'm sorry that you're having a rough time Amber - I'm sure it will get better and once you're doing better I'll have the same meltdowns because I'll be in your shoes! I also recommend reading Babywise if you can. Obviously I haven't had experience of it working or not but it was recommended to me to hopefully set up a routine for our baby girl when she arrives. Like Shelley said, there probably will be things you don't agree with but it does give good options, things to try, etc in establishing a routine of feeding, wake time, and sleep. I hope things get better soon! Can't wait to see you all again - hopefully to meet our baby girl!Vickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13047432506174783647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-72104103638437514062010-09-09T10:26:26.218-05:002010-09-09T10:26:26.218-05:00Oh Amber. I so remember feeling the exact same way...Oh Amber. I so remember feeling the exact same way. In fact, I vividly remember the day I realized it was all permanent and nearly had a panic attack. And then, I cried because I felt so guilty for crying because it was all so permanent!!!<br /><br />Now that Jackson is a rambunctious, oh-so-ornery, 15 month old, I can safely assure you this sleep deprived insanity we call Early Motherhood will morph into a brand new beast. A beast that throws food and screams at Elmo. And you will handle this beast because you will finally be sleeping for at least 6 hours stretches again.<br /><br />I didn't post on my blog for a few weeks after having Jack and when I finally did it felt so cathartic. Write away girl. It will only remind you later what you are overcoming gracefully today.<br /><br />Love you! AND...I absolutely can not wait to see you and hug you next week!!!catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10057404315351866591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-42307328502018884782010-09-09T05:58:26.040-05:002010-09-09T05:58:26.040-05:00Amber...you poor thing! Don't feel bad about t...Amber...you poor thing! Don't feel bad about this post at all!! I went through the same thing...tearful meltdowns...ugh they're the worst when all we want to feel is grateful for our sweet little newborn!! Sleep deprivation is definitely the culprit!! Hang in there I KNOW it will get easier!! <br /><br />I always LOVE your pictures...and you're looking amazing so soon after having a baby!!!!<br /><br />Paisley is lucky to have such a good mother!!!!XOXPriscillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00548749790183329819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-67861136876932358172010-09-08T21:40:56.776-05:002010-09-08T21:40:56.776-05:00You are normal! And, sleep deprivation can make e...You are normal! And, sleep deprivation can make everything feel like crazy world! I definitely recommend reading Babywise. It helped us so much. You will not agree w/everything in it but it can help you figure out a great schedule. Piper really thrived on the schedule we followed from the book! She was sleeping through the night by 2 months! That's why I highly recommend it! But, hang in there! It gets so much easier and better!!Shellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375874286131457734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-80103176112801971602010-09-08T20:40:58.908-05:002010-09-08T20:40:58.908-05:00it will get easier! and for goodness sakes, husban...it will get easier! and for goodness sakes, husbands were invented for a reason! make him entertain paisley so you can get a shower at least once per day and have "me time"!!!! daily showers WILL make you feel better guaranteed! and then MAKE him give you a massage!!! :)basebell6https://www.blogger.com/profile/12476758880824912257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-53465515631628602302010-09-08T20:03:36.605-05:002010-09-08T20:03:36.605-05:00I just came across your blog and you give me hope!...I just came across your blog and you give me hope!! So nice to hear when people who have gone through so many struggles (like i have) end up with a perfect little baby in the end! Congratulations!!Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07948991373763811434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-16030948806956067782010-09-08T18:35:09.020-05:002010-09-08T18:35:09.020-05:00I barely remember the first two-three weeks. I do...I barely remember the first two-three weeks. I do know there were days I didn't brush my teeth until noon or later. Showers were hard to come by, but I pretty much cried every time I took one. I think that was some kind of emotional release for me. Don't worry we all feel crazy with newborns & so incredibly happy at the same time! Hang in there, it gets so much easier!Andrea Arbucklenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879614662040394328.post-16854488718040806992010-09-08T18:06:17.634-05:002010-09-08T18:06:17.634-05:00Amber! Don't be hard on yourself about the cr...Amber! Don't be hard on yourself about the crying! I've found that the 3 times I really broke down were when I had zero sleep..it's impossible to avoid that sort of thing, and right now it's totally normal. I'm sorry you're having a tough time...I can totally relate, and hope it gets better and you two get a nice sleep routine going soon. Zachary is a "nipple napper" too, which is frustrating because I'd like him to be more efficient at the boob...but what can I do? This too shall pass. Your pics are adorable!!!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02402367761816017469noreply@blogger.com