When I first found out that I was infertile, it seemed to open the door for unwanted comments. How everyone felt morally about different fertility treatments, what I needed to do to get pregnant (relax, adopt, etc) and meaningless reassurance that this would all work out. When I finally found out that we were having a baby, a new set of discussions began. How large or small everyone thought I was, what books I should read, how important breastfeeding is, very honest opinions of the names I had chosen, which gender I was having (since both have been surprises). And then when I first became a mother, it seemed to only worsen further. Now I get tips on eating, sleeping, potty-training, discipline, education, etc. And yeah, sometimes this is super helpful when it is solicited. It is NEVER good to get hints from a stranger, and yet they most like to give their input. But the hottest topic of them all has got to be childbirth. Every single person seems to have a passionate id